Well, that's the question isn't it? lol.
Over the last few weeks myself and friends have been making posts to focus on being positive, and this one today will my last and so I'd like to leave you with something very simple.
It's very easy to fall along the dark path where you make up situations in your head about what she/he is going to do/say, or what will happen...and you and I both know, it never does! Am I right? I know I'm not the only one that does this, and it's a difficult trait to get out of, so the next time you find yourself 'creating' the argument or situation that won't happen, take a few deep breaths, take yourself to a quieter place, and concentrate on your breathing. Start bringing positive thoughts into your mind and focus on that instead of on the negative ones, and you'l find the more you practice, the easier it becomes.
I'm no guru, I can only tell you what works for me, and having been a suffer of stress I know first hand what it's like to create that huge, dark cloud and drag it with me everywhere I go.
Being positive doesn't depend on how much money you have or don't have, it's a state of mind, and as long as you realize your energy, be it negative or positive, has an effect on others. So start pushing out that positive vibe !!
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